Emotions are powerful and often immediate, but they don’t have to dictate how we respond to events.
A key insight I’ve gained through my recent creative exploration is the importance of separating the emotion from the event itself.
This practice allows me to fully experience the emotion without letting it blur my judgment.
The goal isn’t to suppress emotions but to engage with them more deeply and more intentionally.
By creating space for both feeling and clarity, emotions can act as valuable guides without taking control of my decisions or actions.
That said, I’m not perfect at it by any stretch of the imagination.
But I’m better at it today than I was yesterday.
I find myself in a space where my natural rhythms and instincts feel out of sync.
Like I’m leaning forward into something rather than letting it unfold and meeting it in its own time.
That tension sits heavy, almost like my body or mind is signaling a need to pause, even as my will urges me to push ahead.
I will sit with the tension for a moment without trying to resolve it.
Maybe I can sense whether it’s urging me to act—or simply asking me to listen.
Everyone has their own destiny, but not everyone chooses to follow it.
Often, the path feels unclear, unconventional, or even intimidating.
Doubts creep in, and taking a safer, more predictable route is easy.
But for me, following my destiny means learning to trust my instincts more deeply.
It's listening to that quiet inner voice that knows what feels right, even when it’s not the obvious choice.
I’m committing to walking this path with greater clarity and intention.
I'm committing to embracing the uncertainty and stepping forward with courage.
"Accept – then act. Whatever the present moment contains, accept it as if you had chosen it. Always work with it, not against it." — Eckhart Tolle
This resonates with me because I want to embody it in my life fully.
My intuition has always been a guide, a quiet voice nudging me toward paths that feel right—even if they don’t look conventional from the outside.
Yet, I’ve sometimes resisted, caught between external expectations and my own inner knowing.
This quote reminds me that acceptance isn’t passivity—it’s alignment.
It’s trusting that where I am now is exactly where I need to be, and from that grounded place, I can act with clarity and purpose.
By leaning into my intuition and working with the present moment, I feel more equipped to create a life that honors my instincts and my vision for the future.
Ever notice how once something’s been brought to your attention, you start seeing it everywhere?
That’s the “red car theory” at work—our focus shifts, and suddenly, the world seems full of what we’re paying attention to.
Lately, I’ve been dialed into opportunities for education and creativity, and while that’s exciting, it also makes me wonder: What else am I missing?
I’ve always loved connecting the dots—between ideas, disciplines, people—and I can’t help but think about the patterns I might not be picking up on yet.
I know there’s so much more waiting for me to notice.
It makes me wonder: What else could I set an intention to see?
It’s easy to compare yourself to others and feel you haven’t achieved enough.
But instead of spiraling into self-doubt, consider this: everyone’s path is different.
Take a moment to recognize your own progress, however small.
Gratitude can help shift your mindset.
Think about where you are now—many people face challenges that limit their potential while you’ve had opportunities to grow.
Reflecting on this doesn’t diminish your feelings but puts them into perspective.
Regrets about the past are natural but don’t define your future.
What matters is how you move forward.
Define success on your terms, not someone else’s, and focus on progress that aligns with your values.
Doing so can transform self-doubt into motivation and keep your journey grounded in growth and gratitude.
Elon Musk at the Montana Jobs Summit, September 16, 2013:
“The only reason I started an Internet company back in 1995 was because there were only a few Internet companies and I couldn't get a job at any of them.
I tried to get a job at Netscape and sent my resume in and tried hanging out in the lobby. But I was too shy to talk to anyone.
Then I was like, okay, I guess I'll have to start a company because I can't get a job anywhere.”
This quote resonates deeply with me.
When I don’t see a direct path to something I wan (which happens often), I look for creative ways to get there.
It’s how I carved my way throughout my career, and it’s a mindset I’ve relied on time and again.
For me, it’s not about following the expected route or waiting for permission—it’s about recognizing that when no doors are open, you can build one.
This principle has shaped my career and personal growth, allowing me to align my work with what truly matters to me.
Trust takes years—sometimes a lifetime—to build, but it can be destroyed in a single moment.
It’s one of our most valuable connections, yet also one of the most delicate.
Why?
Because trust is built on consistency, honesty, and care—qualities we strive for but don’t always get right.
I’ll be the first to admit that I’m not perfect.
I’ve made mistakes that have tested the trust others placed in me.
Whether it’s a poorly timed decision or a moment of miscommunication, I’ve learned that even small missteps can have lasting impacts.
I hold onto the understanding that rebuilding trust, while hard, is possible when approached with sincerity and humility.
That means owning my mistakes, apologizing when necessary, and working every day to align my actions with the values I aspire to.
Trust is fragile, but I believe it’s also a reflection of grace.
We can’t expect perfection from one another, but we can aim for accountability and growth.
That’s what I’m working toward in my life.
Your time is coming. Stay patient.
The digital art space is moving at breakneck speed.
Markets are flooded with opportunity, money, and hype and it’s easy to feel the pull of urgency.
The pressure to jump in, follow trends, and capture fleeting gains can be overwhelming.
But patience isn’t inaction—it’s about being intentional.
Rushing risks aligning with what’s temporary instead of what’s meaningful.
For me, patience is staying anchored to my vision and creating work that reflects my values, not the noise around me.
It’s trusting the process even when the pace feels slow.
The same truth holds in art, business, or life: what’s truly worth it doesn’t come from chasing the crowd.
It comes from consistency, clarity, and timing. Keep showing up, focus on what you can control, and let the right opportunities unfold.
The right moment will come.
And when it does, you’ll know you stayed true to what matters most.
Sometimes, when I hesitate to ask a question, I remind myself: the worst they can say is “no.”
And if they do, nothing changes.
My life doesn’t get worse—it stays the same.
Reframing rejection this way shifts the weight off my shoulders.
It’s not failure; it’s just keeping the status quo.
And if the answer is “yes”?
That’s a step forward I wouldn’t have taken otherwise.
So, I ask. Because staying the same isn’t scary—staying stuck is.